Why BDSM

Define why BDSM?

I think it is about mental and physical control, I am not so much in to pain, But bondage and blindfall, Lesbian rough play, and trow in a bit of spanking as well. Vulnerability is so difficult for me I have my reasons. For a fair part of my life, any vulnerability was treated as weakness and a chance to attack and bully me. I was very sensitive child, adult would talk with the smoothed voices, I am learning to live again, And hars words and voices do not scare me anymore. I am becoming again

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